BEING AUTHENTIC & SOMETIMES WALKING AWAY

Video from Leija Turunen and her mother about:

Being Authentic Means Being Loyal To Yourself & Sometimes Walking Away From Others

They talk about walking away and when it is nessacery, even if it is a family member... it's a great video, have a look!

Love, Light and Joy!

Niina

P.S: From YouTube: "This video is genuinely authentic in its purest form and has a powerful message for everyone. We know it's a long video, but feel that everything we talk about is very important.

Relationships can be challenging, and we as humans grow enormously through our relationships with others. In most relationships, there are differing of opinions and wounds that are reflected back to one another. These issues can be worked out, as long as both parties show a willingness to communicate openly, show respect for the other, and put in the effort to work through the issues- These kinds of relationships can be great opportunities for growth!

However, there are some relationships that are not beneficial for your growth. Some relationships are down right damaging! If you are in a relationship with someone who shows you no respect when you are being/ expressing your authentic self, mocks you, puts you down, verbally abuses you, etc. it's a good idea to ask yourself why you are allowing this for yourself.

Everyone has the right to express their thoughts, feelings and ideas; To be their authentic self! If you show respect for someone in your life, yet receive none in return, this is a sign that you need to limit the amount of time spent with him/ her or completely cut ties. We personally feel that, for example, if you're in a relationship where you get scrutinized for being your joyful, spiritual self who's into talking about energy healing, angels, disclosure, Ets, or any kind of "alternative" ideas, then this relationship is not for your highest good! It's not supporting your confidence, joy, growth, health, or well-being!

The bottom line is that sometimes there comes a time when we will have to make the decision to walk away, even from family members. Letting go of the guilt and obligations around this means being loyal to yourself, and loving yourself enough to do what is best for you. You deserve to thrive, live in joy, have loving, open-minded, supportive people in your life! The more you take your power back by loving yourself, speaking your truth and standing your ground firmly if need be, the more these loving, supportive people will come into your life! We've both experienced this to be the truth!

Having a supportive community in your life is SO IMPORTANT for your continued spiritual growth and happiness!!! If you have been finding it challenging to meet supportive, loving, like-minded people, and you're into things of an "alternative" or spiritual nature, we encourage you to seek out some kind of weekly healing group/ healing circle, or seek out some type of spiritual community. :) "

DREAM = FAMILY MATTERS, SISTERS, HUMANITY

As always the dream brought up an insight on the human state of affairs, you can skip the dream if you wish and go straight to the Interpretation.

Dream = I was with my two sisters in a white apartment, an we talked about a gig we were going to go see, my older sister wanted to shoot the show with her video camera, so I said I could take the snap shots. We went to the place where the gig was going to be held, it was in the woods but the ground was sandy with long pine around, the pre-show was in a log house and little bit of a show was going on there but after photographing some things there my sisters told me it was actually outside. There was some talk with them saying they didn't want to be in the front, so we went in last. I remember taking a picture of them running in front of me before I woke up.

Sister = Siblings are a fantastic source of dream material. Our siblings are important to us emotionally and psychologically. We are bound to them on some level throughout our lives; thus, they will appear in our dreams in may different forms. We learn important lessons about ourselves through our brothers and sisters. They are a reflection on us, and we can not escape their presence and their love, hate or any other emotion . If you have many unresolved issues with your siblings, it is likely that they will frequently appear in your dreams. ( both of my sisters were in my dream )
White = To dream of the color white is symbolic of exclusivity, the new world, appeal, protest, reform, purity, simplicity, justice and innocence. ( reform and simplicity )
House = It is common to dream about houses. They usually symbolize our emotional and psychological selves. All of your experiences, stages of development, and parts of your conscious and unconscious life may be represented by that house. The house may be representing issues concerning a particular dilemma in your life, or it may be more general and comprehensive. Either way, if you pay attention to the details in this dream, you may learn a thing or two about yourself. ( I love house dreams, they are usually the most powerful in telling deep subconscious thought of our own )
Camera = To dream about a camera indicates a wish to hold onto and not let go of your past. It may also indicate that you must focus more tightly on a current circumstances that has arisen within your life. You may need to have a better idea or more focused notion on this situation. ( true, I know as they grow from being kids to adults the bond we have is changing - as much as I'd love to have my little sisters I have to acknowledge they are their own unique persons and not only my baby sisters to protect )

Forest = They may represent your unconscious or your "mental space." If you are lost in the woods, it may be a reflection of feelings of confusion and lack of clear direction. The dark and threatening woods may represent the dark and unexplored areas of the psyche. ( the woods were clear, I knew where I was and with who and I was having fun, I think my sub-consciousness and psyche are telling me this isn't a bad change )
Sand = To see sand in your dream indicates that you are having a change of heart or your position on a certain issue has been altered. It may also mean that you need to shift your outlook to something more productive or significant. ( perfectly in line with before, something changed in my state )
Pine trees = The tree in your dream is you. The health, size and overall quality of the tree is indicative of how you feel about yourself. This interpretation is to be made only when the tree is the focal point of the dream. Also, consider whether the tree is alive with leaves, flowers or fruit, or if it's barren. You may see trees in your dream as a part of a landscape or as a secondary symbol. At those times, consider all of the details as they may have different interpretations than the one just given.  =  To see lush green trees in your dream symbolizes new beginnings, development and desires, It is also indicative of your uniqueness and maturity. ( the pines were full grown and in very good health. After this dream, sub-conscious message a new beginning begins )
Band = To dream about a band symbolizes feelings of acceptance and togetherness. It could also involve a pun about "banding together." ( suits well as the final note that with this change in attitude should bring acceptance and togetherness )
Running/Race = If you are competing, you need to consider your competitive drive and realistically look at the current challenges. If you are running in a race and win, your unconscious may be expressing confidence that you may or may not feel in the wakened state. ( it was in a way race but we made the conscious choice we didn't need to be at the front of the show - there before others. perhaps something don't need to be rushed.

Interpretation 

This dream was about me and my sisters and a simple reform in our sub-conscious relationship with each other on my end. The camera said it all, small note on not wanting to let go of the past I have with my sisters. Having approximately ten year difference in age, I have always looked at them from a point of protection, I have always been old enough to realize they are little and need me differently than my brother who is same age as me. In our youth there hasn't been so many years that we have lived together under the same roof having only one parent shared. And the older we get the more there is separation, I have to say I always enjoyed it how when I came by that they still loved me and thought I was the greatest thing since sliced bread, but as we get older we all start to build the ( don't know why ) necessary walls adults have. And the relationship changes. I sometimes think if I am too much gone from their lives, even though I think about them daily. I have always, as long as I can remember, been a hermit so to speak. I immensely enjoy being alone with just my mind, my soul and spirit world. And when I do raise my head from that I wonder if I am alienating myself from my family.

While in the dream time we accept some great truths about ourselves, in dream time while we sleep our mind has a moment to truly bonder and create change where it is necessary, without the interference from the daily routines and work.

This change last night for me was the change in how I see my sisters, instead the same protective edge reserved for children with blood relations, I now recognize they are their own individual people, not just my sisters. It is hard to explain the change, and I don't mean to sound callous, but I think each person born on this earth has the right to be view as the unique, ultimately different yet alike person they are.
After all we are all brothers and sisters are we not?
I bet people would feel far more connected to each other on this earth if we would now the infinite amount of other life in the multiple Universes around us, we would truly see ourselves as much brothers and sister as if we were joined by blood. Think how closely us all share our dna, compared to life we find one day away from Earth.

This part about seeing my sisters with more than protectiveness reserved for family applies to all my sisters and brothers on this Earth. Are you not allowed to be your unique manifestation of humanity? Of course you are, of course I am. We are all entitled to that love we currently only give to blood, and sometimes not even them.
Entitled to be recognised as our unique self, each of us.

Funny how I granted this to everyone first and now have to remind myself to include my family in this bargain. ;) Of course sometimes it's hard to see the forest from the trees, huh?

It is amusing how your mind works, isn't it, and how you automatically know which dreams truly need interpreting. This one reflected me through my siblings who I connect most to as part of my family, to show me what I had missed.

Have you noticed how sometimes it's hard to see the humanity in the family, see the forest from the trees?

Love, Light and Joy!

Niina

UNITY - HOW FACEBOOK CAN CHANGE THE WORLD?

Last night I visited the Helsinki Comedy Festival, the English Night, and had a blast looking at Stand-Up Comedy merely from the view of humour - recognising how realizing absurdity of a false statement can cause people physical laughter and amusement and cause a great flow of endorphins (I am getting technical but sometimes you got to, I enjoy laughing, but you should always know why you are doing what you doing, it doesn't take anything away from it). This performer from Sweden had a joke about Facebook, how people who would suddenly loose internet would have to reach for help in analogue Facebook. It got many laughs, from me as well, as he went from door to door asking if people ‘Like’d his shoes, but this got me to thinking much more deeply than it was originally meant to. So here follows my thoughts after sleeping on it. I literally had to be out of bed at 6 A.M to write this all done.

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What is Facebook? It promotes, Sharing, Unity, Global Family, Friendship, right? When you log on you feel part of something bigger, a NETwork of individual with common nominators - and this is closer to the Higher Truths than is first evident.

It is the moment of Unity. During the summer we had the Unity Consciousness Weekend, the effects of it is still felt in the communities that value Unity.
But what kind of Unity are we talking about here?

Not the commonly used one for sure - but the Unity of Souls - The common term Unity prepares us to Spiritual Unity. It eases us into the field of brothers and sisters, common goals of life. I think the African-American community (among others) has greatly hold onto Spiritual Unity, a man is your Brother, a woman your Sister. That is the best way to describe the Spiritual Unity as well. We are all a giant interconnected living family. You are on the Soul Level my Sister and you my Brothers. Your Soul, like my Soul, is a piece of the puzzle that is our Mother/Father God, the Soul of each of our Sisters and Brothers is part of the God that is us.

There is running joke among us who recognise Unity Consciousness and Divine in each other:
A man proclaimed loudly how he was an atheist. "I don't believe in god, I don't believe in god! I don't believe in god!" He did this for many life times, until he had to stop  - because he learned he was god.

You have access to your god Spark, your Divinity - if you wish it. You can talk to your divinity when ever you want to, you can ask and you'll get an answer but it depend on you wither you listen, hear it, accept it.
This Divinity has many names - like is common for humans - some call it our Soul, some our Higher Self (literally meaning a divine self that is much taller, wiser, brighter being, and unconditionally loving than our human bodies), some Divinity, some Goddess or God but whatever we call it, it is a part of us, like our Heart - you cannot see it everyday, but you know it is there, and that it is a vital part of you.

This Higher Self (this is the term that feels most comfortable with me, but you can use which ever you want in your head as you read on) is continuously in connection to each and every human's Higher Self. God sees and hears all. We have heard that before haven't we?
But instead of it being an old man in the sky listening in, it is a web of bright sparks of God in each of us, seeing over the whole planet. Sound familiar? It should. Internet is another way to be in ultimate connection with each other, to be one in this web, net, of ideas and thoughts. But internet alone is not enough, we as people need a tool to teach us how to use this web for the highest good of all. As it is in macrocosmos, it is in microcosmos. We as people have to find Unity in more than just an ideal, an actual tangible means to live among each other.
To each planet its own network.

We are being taught in the spiritual circles how lies and secrets are not beneficial to us - I see why, all I have to do is ask my Higher Self and I will know. Secrets harm their keepers, they make you believe that this bad thing you have done should never be uttered but protected with silence. So it festers within, eating on your fear and past memories, growing, growing, growing until it becomes this monstrous thing! Inside your head that is.
You are bound to this fear of what if someone will know this horrible thing, that I once stopped loving and tried to move on, but chickened out and now have to live with it. There are better ways to go about this.
Simply choose differently, you are capable of choosing happiness even if getting to it seems harder to do than hate. Life is school, it is in no way easy, but once you understand it you realize what it is about and start navigating it, learning how to feel genuingly, it becomes easier. There are fights and break-up and divorces until we learn to let go of anger and fear, personally as a child of divorce I have to tell you - it is no big deal, unless you make it to one. I had the wisdom to know that it is not my place to order my parents around, "You have to be this image of you I have created, because I am comfortable with that and nothing else." "Oh, you're different?" "No, won't have that, will be mad, petty and spiteful instead of accepting, loving and caring of the special divine spark of life that you are." The big revelation is, it applies to all people, all relationships!

Now you are wondering what this has to do with Facebook?

Basic thing about Facebook is sharing. You share your ideas, you share your worries, you share disappointments and you share your love, friendship and caring for each other.
People make a huge deal about how Facebook is fake and you wouldn't do that in real life - to this let me remind you how humanity LEARNS.
Trial and error, we try try and try, we fumble and fall and we get back up and try try and try again until driving that bike is SECOND NATURE.

You see where I am getting with this?

There is a way for mainstream people and us to practise Unity Consciousness, Unity of being a Family, you and me, equal, loving, caring, full of happiness and support, there for each other instantly.
That Practice is Facebook.
I am sure this was not the original idea of the people who created Facebook, but I am sure if you think about it you can see the fine print of the idea that was typed down by OUR Higher Selves.

The most gruesome things appear of our profiles, sadness, depression, divorce in their barest form - and us others feel the pain, we help, support and care - learning to react the same way when one day someone you "currently are pretending" not to know on this earth says this on the street.

And we share the births of babies, finding of true love, amazing joy of merely a walk in the nature or the celebration of a person’s birthday or any other memorable day - we learn to share love, unconditional love, share our happiness instantly!

With 2012 and beyond coming, I can see a timeline, a purpose for Facebook - Can you see it?

Namaste - "The Divine in me, recognises the Divine in you."

Discussion @ http://lightworkers.org/blog/114411/unity-how-facebook-can-change-world

DAY 12 OF BLUE STORM WAVESPELL

Day 12: July 7 - White Dog

"White Dog signals a breakthrough in your life: new beginnings, new perceptions, new allies and friends. As you express more authentically who you are, you draw your true family closer to you. With your guides and companions, you have the ability to manifest your inspired visions and dreams. Recognize the eyes and hearts that spark the remembrance of a sacred trust. If you are attached to finding your "soul mate," your "one and only," and yet find yourself seemingly alone, look at the issues you are seeking to satisfy outside of self. You are never alone - your companions of destiny are always available for loving support through your spiritual connection to the one heart."

Niina: I have recently with ACIM, "A Course In Miracles" picked up one life altering information, the whole planet in soul level is my family, my sisters and brothers - each as valueable as the other.

On the Soul Level we are all pure, and bathe in light and embrace the truth, releasing the use of errors - such as anger, fear, pain, anxioty and lust, among others.

And it is because of this Soul Level that it is very hard for me to see anything but family anymore. It would be cruel to not Uncontionally Love a wayward sister or brother just because they are making a mistake right now, when you know they are in essence a great, bright, loving being. This way we are never alone - alone is this error belief that we have been separated from our Higher Self and that family. You can never be alone when you release the thought that there ever was "alone".

EXPAND YOUR FAMILY TO ENCOMPASS ALL

Saturday - GWT 6:05 - 5th June 2010
This Channeling is Through * Niina S. Cord

I asked for a message for myself, for today. This message came to me partly because I am on my way today to see my sisters and extended family because they both are gratuating, one from 6th grade, one from polytechnic.

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I am Tianna

On this day you are surrounded by family. A natural caring, loving environment. It is effortless, soothing and steady flow of love. They share the ease of physical manifestation of caring in contact such as hugs and kisses, that are not sexual. Family is your prime example of what love on Earth is suppose to be. UNCONDITIONAL. They share with you the bond of the whole humanity in a microcosm. It is your way, your purpose to learn to Expand you family, not by marriage and sex and babies - but through Unconditional Love. Accept new sisters, new brothers, new mothers, new fathers, cousins, aunts, uncles, nephews and nieces - EXPAND! A flower is family, it is in your energy as much as you are in theirs, do not destroy your family BUT cherish each member, the flora, the fauna, the human. We are ONE family, each mineral, each organic, each and everyone of US. There is no separation between you and the flower, my dear, there is no separation between you and I, I AM your sister.
EXPAND your family to include ALL. You cannot be truly whole if you do not TRULY accept everyone as part of you Unconditional Love Family.

Be Love, Be Family, Be Alive.

Tianna.

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She appeared to me for the first time today, she looked spanish, dark haired, dark eyes, filled with grace, strength and unconditional love.

Thank you Tianna, Be Blessed In Light.

ADDITIONAL LINK TO LIGHTWORKERS ON THIS POST:
http://lightworkers.org/channeling/107532/expand-your-family-encompass-all
http://lightworkers.org/blog/107533/expand-your-family-encompass-all